STRESS BREAKDOWN: THE GREAT COPING DEBATE – THOSE UNABLE TO AVOID STRESS

June 1st, 2010
It is obvious that many people suffering from stress-breakdown symptoms could cure themselves immediately by letting others take over some of their responsibilities and problems. However, it is true to say that a great many people are not in a position to do this. The human condition being what it is, the willing horse gets the work and the others avoid stress-breakdown symptoms.
Unfortunately there are many people suffering from stress-breakdown symptoms who would dearly love to let other people take over their problems and responsibilities, but who know that if they did so, the results might be disastrous. We only have to think of people with specific skills who are temporarily in an essential role. If others should take over, the lowering of standards might even lead to danger to others.
I don’t have an answer to this problem, and my solutions might not work for anyone else. However, for people in this position and who are suffering from stress breakdown symptoms, I will attempt some advice:
1. Don’t stay indispensable for any longer than is absolutely necessary. Insist on someone being trained to do the work or handle the responsibilities you have. Or at least train somebody to take over in an emergency, without waiting for the emergency situation first.
2. Don’t arrange or design systems that only you can operate. A common example that comes to mind is the complex bits-and-pieces procedures that some people use in their family banking and the way they handle their accounts. It is not uncommon for widowed people to be almost overwhelmed when the one who always did the banking and paid the accounts, dies. In lesser crises, it is as well to have your own affairs simple and able to be handled by others in the family if you are not well.
When people don’t comprehend your systems they will leave it to you for fear of making a mess of it. I notice that in recent years, an increasingly more common situation is occurring, where a relative comes in to help with the household jobs when someone is sick or has had a baby; the machines – dishwashers, washing machines, microwave ovens and so on – can be so complex that the person coming in to help is unable to do much for fear of causing some disaster by setting the buttons or the dials wrongly, or failing to respond in time to the flashing red lights.
3.   Try being unreliable at times when you know it is safe to do so, while they don’t. You don’t have to let them know that you are deliberately being unreliable. It will do them good to realize they have the capacity to function without you.
4.   Actually practice non-coping. Try being helpless now and then and see what it feels like. It might have some good spinoffs. You might realize what it feels like to be disabled or to be dependent on your family and it might make you a more tolerant person towards your own failings.
5.   Keep a diary and don’t attempt to commit things to your memory. Otherwise you will find yourself worrying if you have forgotten something.
6.   Try (at least once anyway) having someone else arranges your priorities. A good secretary works this way; in the household it might be a reasonable idea to have priorities set by your spouse, in consultation.
7.   Discuss your responsibilities and problems with your friends. Quite often, surprisingly, a friend may come up with a solution that you hadn’t thought of.
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ANTI-DEPRESSANTS

NATURAL THERAPIES FOR INSOMNIA: ACUPUNCTURE

June 1st, 2010
Acupuncture can be an effective treatment for insomnia, by restoring balance and harmony to the patient’s energy system. Return to normal sleep may take several sessions, but some people feel extremely relaxed immediately after or even during a treatment. It can relieve emotional as well as physical pain, calming anxiety and lifting depression. Regarded by most doctors with scepticism only 20 years ago, it is the most widely used complementary therapy within the medical profession, practised by a number of GPs, and increasingly in hospital pain relief clinics.
This ancient Chinese technique is based on the theory that health depends on a harmonious flow of energy, or life force, called qi (pronounced chee). Qi flows through the body via energy channels called meridians; the twelve main meridians are connected with and named after a physical organ — the heart, lungs, liver, kidneys, and so on — each of which can be affected by a specific emotion. For example, fear affects the kidneys and anger the liver, together with their relevant meridians. Insomnia is usually found to relate to a disruption in the energy flow of the heart meridian, which can be caused by shock, or even by excessive joy.
Too much or too little energy in one or more meridians can give rise to both mental and physical symptoms. Diagnosis therefore focuses on the individual’s state of energy rather than specific diseases. Traditional methods include taking a full history, observing the patient’s skin colour and possibly tongue, and noting which parts of the body are extra hot or cold. The strength of the meridians is checked through twelve pulses found in the wrists. Over- or under-activity in a meridian can be caused by dietary, physical or emotional factors — often a combination of these — and the acupuncturist’s aim is to restore health by restoring the balance. Progress is usually slow and steady, but treatment can sometimes have dramatic effects in releasing traumatic memories, and a few acupuncturists combine their treatment with psychotherapy.
Along the meridians lie hundreds of acupuncture points, tiny gateways into the energy flow, whose Chinese names often indicate their function. Treatment consists of stimulating or sedating the meridians to restore the energy balance, by inserting very fine steel needles into the appropriate points. Whether this is painful or not depends both on the practitioner’s touch and the patient’s sensitivity. Points that need treatment are usually tender to the touch, and may be slightly painful when the needle is first inserted; as the balance is restored, the pain lessens. Usually only a few points are treated in any one session. The needles may be left in place for 10 to 20 minutes, and the acupuncturist may twiddle them from time to time.
Some people are worried about the possibility of cross-infection through needles. Acupuncturists belonging to the professional associations included in the Council for Acupuncture are bound by a Code of Practice which demands stringent standards of hygiene and sterilization approved by the DHSS; these days many use disposable needles. Some treat the acupuncture points with burning herbs rather than needles, and children may be treated painlessly by stimulating the points with tiny hammers. Acupuncturists all have their favourite methods; some also practise Chinese herbalism in which there is an increasing interest these days.
For insomnia, the acupuncturist may well treat points on the heart meridian, including Shenmen (‘gate of the spirit’), an important point on the wrist, which is also often used for depression. In traditional Chinese terms the heart is said to be the seat of the mind or spirit, and sleeplessness is caused by the spirit ‘rampaging’. In more orthodox terms, treating the heart meridian takes the pressure off the nerves to the heart, which may be over-stimulated.
Acupuncture can be extremely useful in reducing withdrawal symptoms from tranquillizers, sleeping pills and other drugs including nicotine. Research on heroin addicts in Hong Kong has shown that treatment increases the brain’s output of endorphins, reducing pain and lifting the mood. It also stimulates the excretion of drugs from the system. Some acupuncturists prefer patients to come off their pills before starting treatment, since the drugs may counteract the effects of acupuncture.
Self-help
Personal contact and a good relationship with the therapist are essential to the success of any natural treatment. However, there are some devices on the market which, though they should not be regarded as substitutes for proper treatment, enable people to treat symptoms at home. They include the AcuHealth, a machine devised by an Australian doctor and acupuncturist, which uses light, painless electric currents instead of needles; it comes with a comprehensive guide to finding and treating the relevant points for a wide range of conditions, including insomnia, restless legs, tension and so on.
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Anti-Depressants/Sleeping Aid

WHY DOES YOUR CHILD HAVE SLEEP PROBLEMS?

May 21st, 2009

What about the neighbours?

Parents are always concerned about the reaction of neighbours when planning to implement these strategies for helping their children with their sleep problems. We recommend that parents tell their neighbours of the problem and of the planned intervention. The vast majority of people will be sympathetic and supportive once they are told, especially if the eventual outcome will be peace and quiet for everyone.

Use of medications

Drugs have a limited place in the treatment of sleep disorders. They are not the cure or the answer to these problems, and are probably used too frequently and for too long. The management of sleep problems in childhood revolves around the behavioural techniques described above. Most children will respond readily to these suggestions, and drugs are not needed.

In a small number of cases, medications are useful over a short term to break the cycle and give the behavioural techniques a better chance of working. They are given in full doses for 2-4 nights, then the dose is gradually reduced over the next week while the other strategies are being put into place.

Drugs should never be used as the only form of treatment of sleep problems, and should never be used for longer than two weeks.

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POWER OVER PANIC/TAKING BACK THE POWER: AWARENESS

May 18th, 2009

The first step in learning to control our thinking is to be aware of what is actually taking place. To do this we can draw from the meditation technique, although with this exercise we will not be meditating. Part of meditation is becoming aware of when we get caught up in our thoughts. We can extend this by becoming aware of what we are thinking throughout the day and evening.

Part of us needs to stand back and observe the whole process. All we need to do at this stage is to observe our thoughts. Don’t analyse them or interfere with them. Just watch them as they come tumbling in. Then bring the awareness to the body. Watch how our body responds to our thoughts and how in turn our thoughts respond to the symptoms. It isn’t the symptoms which create the fear. The way we think creates the fear, which creates the symptoms, which creates further thoughts, which creates further fear and the cycle continues.

Nor do we need to be thinking about the disorder or symptoms. Whatever we are thinking about is usually negative, the mental abuse, ‘I’m stupid, weak, hopeless’; the negative internal conversations; guilt; what we should have done, or shouldn’t have done. The overall result is the same-anxiety and attacks. When we see this relationship, we begin to see through the fear.

We need to become aware of the whole process of our thinking and our physical reaction to our thinking. We need to see how they build upon each other and create our symptoms.

If I ask people what they were thinking about before their last attack, they usually say that they weren’t thinking of anything. This is not so. They were thinking, they just weren’t aware of their thoughts. Asking the same question of people who feel continually anxious brings the same reply. They also are not aware.

We need to be aware of the relationship between our thoughts and our symptoms. When we see the relationship we will

understand why there is nothing to fear. The anxiety and the panic are a response to our thinking. We are simply frightening ourselves. Nothing more.

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CHILDREN’S SLEEP:WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME?

May 18th, 2009

Friends are saying, “That child is running your life.” Others are saying, “She will start sleeping better soon—just be patient.” Then you hear the dreaded “My child is three years old and still doesn’t sleep.” You think, that can’t happen to me! That won’t happen to me!

You are ready to make some changes. But you wonder…when is the best time to start working on it? When can I realistically expect my child to make some changes? The answer to the question “when” is a complex one and mu be examined on two levels: a child’s readiness and the parents’ readiness.

Child’s Readiness. Before you decide to change your child’s sleep behavior review her readiness. There are a few factors to consider.

Check developmental stage. Be certain that your expectations a appropriate for your child’s developmental level. Know what is considers “average” for your child’s age. For example, when you learn that most two year olds need a nap, you will feel more confident in expecting one. Although you can take preliminary, stage-setting steps beforehand, a child might not have the neurological maturity to sleep all night until he is six months old. Do not feel burdened by norms, but use them as guideposts.

Consider temperament. Personality or temperament should also be taken into consideration—especially during developmental upheaval, when getting through a typical day is a feat. Generally, this would not be a logical time to introduce new expectations.

Other factors. Never begin a new program when a child is ill or is dealing with other changes—for example, a new house or a new sibling. Try to consider the whole situation, but if there never seems to be a “right” time, ó may be making too many allowances. There will never be the perfect time; ó may just have to plunge in. Children are incredibly resilient and adaptable.

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LOSS OF CONTROL OF URINE AND/OR FAECES (INCONTINENCE, FISTULAS AND STOMAS) PART 2

May 18th, 2009

The first and second reasons tend to go together, because you usually lose both feeling and muscle control when the nerves to the bladder or bowel are damaged. The trouble spot could be in the pelvis or spinal cord. If it is in the spinal cord you are likely to have some loss of strength and feeling in the legs as well.

Incontinence due to nerve damage can take a special form called overflow incontinence. Here the bladder muscle is so weakened that to start with you can’t pass urine at all. Then the bladder gets so full that small amounts of urine start to leak away, quite out of your control. A similar thing can happen with the bowels—they can get stretched with motions which you cannot pass. At that stage, small amounts of slimy fluid may start to come away, again, quite out of your control. This form of incontinence in the case of the bladder can be mistaken for cystitis and in the case of the bowel can be mistaken for diarrhoea. Such mistakes will not be made if a doctor or nurse examines you properly, including examining inside your rectum and your vagina with a gloved finger. In fact, this form of examination is necessary to work out the reason for every form of incontinence.

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HAEMORRHOIDS – TREATMENT

May 15th, 2009

Avoiding constipation and subsequent straining at stool is an important part of reducing the frequency and severity of symptoms. Having a diet high in fibre is a good way of ensuring normal bowel function.

Sometimes, it may be necessary to use laxatives to ensure that the bowel works without undue strain. Bulk-forming or softening agents are better than harsh purgatives, as these latter may become habit-forming and the bowel gets lazy and requires larger doses.

Proper examination of the bowel is always necessary to exclude a primary cause for the bleeding, such as a cancer. It may be that some other condition such as a cancer of the rectum may be present as well.

Injection of haemorrhoids is a satisfactory method of dealing with first and early second degree piles. A solution, usually of phenol in almond oil, is injected into the mucosa around the dilated veins and causes clotting in the veins and eventual fibrosis, which occludes the dilated veins.

Another technique for second degree piles is to insert a proctostope to see the projecting pile and slip a small rubber band over it. This cuts off the blood supply at the base and, after a week or so, the obstructed pile sloughs off. This procedure is sometimes associated with secondary bleeding.

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MENOPAUSE – INTRODUCTION

May 15th, 2009

If it hasn’t, this spongy lining is no longer needed and is shed. This is the period, or monthly bleeding.

When a woman’s reproductive life first starts, many of the cycles are anovulatory. This means that no ovum is released. At the menopause, the same thing happens.

The menarche, or onset of the periods, is occurring at a younger age. This is believed to be due to better nutrition as girls seem to be growing taller, quicker and to be reaching sexual maturity earlier.

Recent research seems to indicate that women are going through menopause at a later age and these factors are extending the menstruating years. Studies in Australia and Britain show that the average age for menopause is just over 50.

The assumption that those who started their periods early finish late, and vice-versa, appears not to be true. It also appears that the age at which the first child is born and the number of children the woman has does not influence menopause.

As the average age of the start of the periods is just over 13, most women can expect a menstruating life of nearly 37 years.

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THE G.I. FACTOR: DURING AN EVENT

May 8th, 2009

High G.I. foods should be used during events lasting longer than 90 minutes. This form of carbohydrate is rapidly released into the bloodstream and ensures that glucose is available for oxidation in the muscle cells. Liquid foods are usually tolerated better than solid foods while racing because they are emptied more quickly from the stomach. Sports drinks are ideal during the race because they replace water and electrolytes as well. The old standby of bananas strapped to the bike doesn’t have much scientific basis unless they are very ripe. The G.I. of bananas is only 55 and some of their carbohydrate is completely resistant to digestion (which could give you gas and a pain in the belly). If you feel hungry for something solid during a cycling race, try jelly beans (G.I. of 80) or a honey (preferably glucose enriched) sandwich (G.I. of 75) using high G.I. bread.

Consume 30 to 60 grams of carbohydrate per hour during the event.

Events where the G.I. factor can give you the edge:

running marathon, swimming marathon, triathlon, non-stop tennis competition, football game (depending on the player’s position), cross-country siding, mountain climbing, prolonged strenuous aerobics and gym work-outs (longer than 90 minutes).

The pre-event meal. How much should I eat before the event?

About I gram of carbohydrate for each kilogram of body weight (i.e. 50 grams of carbohydrate if you weigh 50 kilograms, or 75 grams of carbohydrate if you weigh 75 kilograms).

How soon before? I to 2 hours before the event is a good starting point. You should experiment to determine the timing that works best for you.

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FAT LOSS, BIOLOGICAL INFLUENCES: IMPLICATIONS

May 8th, 2009

1. It is necessary to recognise genetic differences in body shape and composition and the implications of these for fat loss programming.

2. Factors which may indicate a genetic influence in fat loss response (i.e. parental body shape; early onset of overfatness; duration of effect) should be included in any pre-program screening.

3. It may be necessary in certain groups (i.e. the aged, pre-meno-pausal exercising females) to check the level of spontaneous physical activity being carried out outside a planned exercise regime and attempt to increase this through ‘incidental’ activity.

4. Individuals with a genetic predisposition to obesity may have difficulty limiting food intake and the taste for fatty foods.

5. Recognise the major gender differences in fat loss responsivity to both energy input restrictions and energy output and design fat loss programs accordingly.

6. Avoid severe restrictions of food intake or heavy exercise prescription in females as these may have a counter-productive effect on the biological propensity of females to conserve energy for reproduction.

7. Recognise the potential for excessive fat gains during and following pregnancy in some women and attempt to offer preventive prescriptions for this, particularly in those most likely to be at risk.

8. Avoid programming which involves unrealistic expectations about body image, particularly in females.

9. Extreme forms of body building with accompanying overeating disorders in men should be seen as the equivalent of anorexia in females—there are comparative body shape obsessions and distortions.

10. Programming should be modified to account for differences in responses that occur with ageing with both men and women, but particularly in post-menopausal women.

11. Monitor possible changes in eating patterns that occur with ageing, of which the client should be aware.

12. Use body fat and fat distribution measures such as BMI and waist-to-hip ratio cautiously in some racial groups (such as Pacific Islanders, Asian and Negroid women) for whom these measures are not necessarily appropriate.

13. Recognise racial differences in body shape and composition and the implications of this for healthy body weight and fat maintenance.

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